As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.
James 2:26 NIV
In My Life
I have encountered so many women who say that they want to be married and that they are waiting for their Boaz . And there is NOTHING wrong with that… But This is The PROBLEM that I have.
Faith without works is DEAD !
I Get You Want To Be Married
But why is your house nasty? You have a sink full of dishes , nasty clothes hanging around the room , you dont bathe , and you dont buy groceries yet you want a husband?
I even see women who get mad at their husbands because they dont desire them anymore… then they go to church cry and whining telling everybody about how “terrible” their husband is … but your HOUSE is N.A.S.T.Y !
Clean your House ! Clean your room ! Just CLEAN !
But what if I don’t have a house but a roommate?
Ok. Well you can still clean. The Bible tells us to be faithful with little and THEN you can bet trusted with much.
“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?
Luke 16:10-11 NIV
Nobody in this world is perfect, the only one who is without sin is Jesus Christ our risen king our savior (Psalm 24:1). During this time while you’re waiting for your husband why dont you
- Get a prayer schedule
- Start applying for jobs, school, or go to work
- Serve at church and give to the homeless
- Be DETEREMINED to sit down and read the entire Bible
- Ask God for your purpose
- FOCUS ON HIM
- Learn how to clean,cook, and maintain the living space God has given you.
- And Before you know it your husband will be there
God Wants To Protect Your Mind
A secret hidden killer against the Christian mind is fantasy.
A person is praised according to their prudence, and one with a warped mind is despised. Those who work their land will have abundant food, but those who chase fantasies have no sense.
Proverbs 12:8, 11 NIV
Christian women have to be SO careful! Many women before us have made IDOLS out of husbands who are really terrible. But God is raising a Davidic Marriage. He is giving beauty for Ashes. Dont listen to random voices telling you to go to places and all of this “God told me who my husband is” foolishness. You need to accept a God reality. Dont make random videos about him that GOD did not tell you to . Dont follow people who are adulterous women and bash men. Dont listen to advice of women who hate their husbands . But instead be quiet and prayerful in SECRET so that when you look up (while working) your husband will be right there ready to sweep you off of your feet.
This Is The Time To Prepare
The Bible says God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) yet it still happens. Look at Xerxes and Vashti… David and Michal. So what if your husband is a man who has a ex-wife … Do you think he wants to deal with you and your foolishness ?
We as women forget that men have feelings to. They cry to , they hurt to, they get depressed to, and we are supposed to help them (by the grace of God) to get through every trial that they face…. not ADD to their struggles.
No man wants to come home after working all day to a nasty home , you walking around with basketball shorts and bonnet, arguing over nothing, and then lay down with you after YOU have acted a fool. And God will HONOR his decisions to NOT be with you … why ? Because it’s in God’s Holy Word.
So sis… if you feel convicted . Get your life together. Go into your room or prayer room or prayer Closet and REPENT and let God get your life all the way together. Because God wants your marriage to work. He doesnt do unnecessary drama. God is direct and he is a God of reality.
Love In Christ,
Precious- Diamond Chessier
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