LETTING GOD HEAL YOU AFTER A BROKEN ENGAGMENT

Letting God Heal You After A Broken Marriage Engagement

1 Peter 3:7

New Living Translation

Husbands

In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.

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Hey Guys..

After praying about this I felt the Holy Spirit tell me that this is a topic that I needed to write on for both name her woman and abundance of peace. For a few months now I have not necessarily written articles.. I have been constantly posting Bible verses… and there is nothing wrong with that. But I believe that God told me to do this and to share a little of my story.

God Told Me To Let Him Go

Honestly… I never wanted to be married. I was not one of those girls growing up who desired or dreamed about becoming a wife or mother. That never was something that I wanted or needed. But I never really had trouble getting a “man”… but I did have toxic relationship troubles..

Constantly, in my relationships I continued to come across the same issue.. Men wanted me, my body, my beauty, and how I looked… but they did not want Jesus. Which means they want me to be one way at church and “pretend” like I am holier than thou there… but when I go home they wanted me to become someone else that satisfies there lust issue.

The Inner War

Yes… I have made bad decisions with relationships… who hasn’t …but… it gets old.. Bad decisions get very old and very tiring. Our generation is very entitled. They believe that they can hurt , be evil, and mean to people… and we’re just supposed to put up with that ? No.. That’s a fantasy not reality..

I began to have a inner war with in me.. I could feel God telling me that this engagement was not going to last… I could feel God telling me that I made a mistake.. that I just had to listen to Him and trust Him.. and He would deliver me.

Basically…

I made the decision not to get married…. And this is why…

  1. If someone has a lust problem.. I cant fix that.. only God can. Deliverance needs to take place.
  2. Little comments of someone saying you’re to “old, boring, or a grandma” can lead to bigger problems with men … Sometimes it’s a small hint that they desire a woman who is sexually inappropriate and more provocative than you.
  3. If someone makes fun of you because you’re a Christian by calling you a “nun”… well maybe they are not really for you…..

I Cannot Change The Fact That I Love God

Ending an engagement hurts… it really does. But if this is your story it is going to be ok. Sometimes when you continue to let people hurt you, make you cry yourself to sleep, lie to you, and make fun of you… they go further and further to hurt you.

Toxic relationships are not healthy. The enemy is trying to make toxic people the new normal… but I rebuke that in the Name Of Jesus ..

Toxic people have to understand that no one has to put up with them… Period.

I pray for people/women… who heart’s are broken right now because they are not getting married to who they thought would be their forever…

Personally

**This is for adults**

God gave me a promise that my husband would be a AMAZING man of God. Which means…

  1. He doesn’t make rude comments because I love Jesus (calling me a nun, grandma, or old woman).
  2. He loves me for me.. I don’t have to dress provocative for him to want me…
  3. He wont cheat on me (such as text other women, lie about being married, or watch pornography).

God Has A Special Plan

I know that God has a special plan for whomever I am destined, purposed, and led by Jesus to marry. I also believe that God has this same plan for you. You just have to trust Him like I did… even if it hurts.

Prayer

Father, I pray that you personally intervene and heal everyone who is crying themselves to sleep over a bad relationship. I pray that you give them beauty for ashes. I pray that you wipe away every tear from their eyes. I pray God that you introduce yourself as ABBA… Our King… Our Savior.

In Jesus Name, Amen.

Romans 8:15

New Living Translation

15 So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children.[a] Now we call him, “Abba, Father.”[b]

God, Is Plan B A Sin?

Did you know that there was a woman in the Bible named Tamar… who disguised herself as a prostitute and became pregnant because she wanted a baby? Did you know that she is in the lineage of Jesus Christ? Look at this Verse below,

Matthew 1:3 The Passion Translation (TPT)

Judah and Tamar[a] had twin sons, Perez and Zerah. Perez had a son named Hezron, who had a son named Ram,

Matthew 1:16 The Passion Translation (TPT)

16 who was the father of Joseph, the husband[a] of Mary the mother of Jesus, who is called “the Anointed One.”

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I am very much against abortion. But I am also against Plan B, because it is really the same thing. There is so much depression and regret that comes with taking Plan B and it leaves you hurting in brokenness.

My Testimony

When I was in sin I took it. Years later I regret it. I watch others who may have conceived a child, around the same time I would have, move forward in their life with children and I sit alone. I have a deep regret for what I have done especially as I draw closer to God, because I know it was wrong. The Bible says,

Ecclesiastes 11:4 Living Bible (TLB)

If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done.[a]

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Who says a pregnant woman cannot come to God? I believe that if you have conceived a child out of wedlock you need to repent and go to the Father and endure the natural consequences of your sin… meanwhile trusting God through the process… Because years later if you disobey , you will regret it.

So if you are a woman that is pregnant out of wedlock, Pray. PRAY. and PRAY some more. What does The Bible say? Pray With Out Ceasing. Go get a Bible, Go join a local church, and go get into the face of God.

To Be Honest

I am tired of watching women abuse their children, chose men over their children, and keep having random boyfriends around their kids. Lets get some identity in God and let him heal you from your low self-esteem so that we do not have another generation who are moral failures.

Children are a beautiful reward from heaven (Psalms 127). Alot of women say “I don’t want to make the same mistake as my mother or father” but then they end up doing THE SAME EXACT THING. The Bible says Faith Without Works Is Dead… So what does that mean?

  1. Pray
  2. Seek The Face Of God
  3. Get A Bible/ Download The App
  4. Join A Local Church
  5. And God will send the provision that you need

Look At This Passage Below:

1 Kings 17:8-16 The Message (MSG)

7-9 Eventually the brook dried up because of the drought. Then God spoke to him: “Get up and go to Zarephath in Sidon and live there. I’ve instructed a woman who lives there, a widow, to feed you.”

10-11 So he got up and went to Zarephath. As he came to the entrance of the village he met a woman, a widow, gathering firewood. He asked her, “Please, would you bring me a little water in a jug? I need a drink.” As she went to get it, he called out, “And while you’re at it, would you bring me something to eat?”

12 She said, “I swear, as surely as your God lives, I don’t have so much as a biscuit. I have a handful of flour in a jar and a little oil in a bottle; you found me scratching together just enough firewood to make a last meal for my son and me. After we eat it, we’ll die.”

13-14 Elijah said to her, “Don’t worry about a thing. Go ahead and do what you’ve said. But first make a small biscuit for me and bring it back here. Then go ahead and make a meal from what’s left for you and your son. This is the word of the God of Israel: ‘The jar of flour will not run out and the bottle of oil will not become empty before God sends rain on the land and ends this drought.’”

15-16 And she went right off and did it, did just as Elijah asked. And it turned out as he said—daily food for her and her family. The jar of meal didn’t run out and the bottle of oil didn’t become empty: God’s promise fulfilled to the letter, exactly as Elijah had delivered it!The Message (MSG)

Guard Your Heart

During this time of pregnancy God may start delivering you from messy friends who do not want any good for you. God does not want you poor forever, he doesn’t want you begging on the corner for food, and he doesn’t want you abusing your children… choose the path that leads to LIFE IN CHRIST JESUS.

So today focus on God and meditate on Proverbs 3:5-6…. Trust in The Lord with all thy heart.

Love Mixed With Faith,

Precious-Diamond Chessier

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LETTING GOD HEAL YOU AFTER A BROKEN ENGAGMENT

Letting God Heal You After A Broken Marriage Engagement

1 Peter 3:7

New Living Translation

Husbands

In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.

**

Hey Guys..

After praying about this I felt the Holy Spirit tell me that this is a topic that I needed to write on for both name her woman and abundance of peace. For a few months now I have not necessarily written articles.. I have been constantly posting Bible verses… and there is nothing wrong with that. But I believe that God told me to do this and to share a little of my story.

God Told Me To Let Him Go

Honestly… I never wanted to be married. I was not one of those girls growing up who desired or dreamed about becoming a wife or mother. That never was something that I wanted or needed. But I never really had trouble getting a “man”… but I did have toxic relationship troubles..

Constantly, in my relationships I continued to come across the same issue.. Men wanted me, my body, my beauty, and how I looked… but they did not want Jesus. Which means they want me to be one way at church and “pretend” like I am holier than thou there… but when I go home they wanted me to become someone else that satisfies there lust issue.

The Inner War

Yes… I have made bad decisions with relationships… who hasn’t …but… it gets old.. Bad decisions get very old and very tiring. Our generation is very entitled. They believe that they can hurt , be evil, and mean to people… and we’re just supposed to put up with that ? No.. That’s a fantasy not reality..

I began to have a inner war with in me.. I could feel God telling me that this engagement was not going to last… I could feel God telling me that I made a mistake.. that I just had to listen to Him and trust Him.. and He would deliver me.

Basically…

I made the decision not to get married…. And this is why…

  1. If someone has a lust problem.. I cant fix that.. only God can. Deliverance needs to take place.
  2. Little comments of someone saying you’re to “old, boring, or a grandma” can lead to bigger problems with men … Sometimes it’s a small hint that they desire a woman who is sexually inappropriate and more provocative than you.
  3. If someone makes fun of you because you’re a Christian by calling you a “nun”… well maybe they are not really for you…..

I Cannot Change The Fact That I Love God

Ending an engagement hurts… it really does. But if this is your story it is going to be ok. Sometimes when you continue to let people hurt you, make you cry yourself to sleep, lie to you, and make fun of you… they go further and further to hurt you.

Toxic relationships are not healthy. The enemy is trying to make toxic people the new normal… but I rebuke that in the Name Of Jesus ..

Toxic people have to understand that no one has to put up with them… Period.

I pray for people/women… who heart’s are broken right now because they are not getting married to who they thought would be their forever…

Personally

**This is for adults**

God gave me a promise that my husband would be a AMAZING man of God. Which means…

  1. He doesn’t make rude comments because I love Jesus (calling me a nun, grandma, or old woman).
  2. He loves me for me.. I don’t have to dress provocative for him to want me…
  3. He wont cheat on me (such as text other women, lie about being married, or watch pornography).

God Has A Special Plan

I know that God has a special plan for whomever I am destined, purposed, and led by Jesus to marry. I also believe that God has this same plan for you. You just have to trust Him like I did… even if it hurts.

Prayer

Father, I pray that you personally intervene and heal everyone who is crying themselves to sleep over a bad relationship. I pray that you give them beauty for ashes. I pray that you wipe away every tear from their eyes. I pray God that you introduce yourself as ABBA… Our King… Our Savior.

In Jesus Name, Amen.

Romans 8:15

New Living Translation

15 So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children.[a] Now we call him, “Abba, Father.”[b]

I MADE IT!

Have You Ever Felt Betrayed

(Romans 8:28)

Trusting God Through Adversity

When I lost my apartment in 2018.. it was lower than rock bottom. It was terrible. I felt like any dignity and purpose that I had was gone. Not only that… People that said they loved me laughed at me and rejoiced in my failures…

I felt so empty and I battled depression so heavily…

But God

When I was at my lowest.. God was the closet to me. This God.. that God that I had been running from since 12 years old (when I first started speaking in tongues)… was calling me and telling me to come back to my first love…

The depth of pain and humiliation that I endured was terrible. The very people that I helped when they didn’t have a job.. The people that I comforted when they were being abused.. The people that I prayed for whenever they needed me had betrayed me…

But God told me He went through the same thing…. For me He died on the cross..

The Power Of The Bible

When I had nothing … I spoke scripture over my life… I kept speaking Psalms 105:15… I kept speaking that vengeance was God and He would repay… I spoke scripture and it came to pass..

Now… two years later God blessed me with a over 5 bedroom house.. and a beautiful backyard.. lawn… The House he gave me is HUGE ! Well.. when you serve a big God.. what do you expect ?

My pain was for His glory.. To show that man cannot live by bread alone… but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.

I LOST EVERYTHING BUT I STILL HAD GOD AND THAT’S WHY I MADE IT !

…. Diamond

Date Written: 8/26/2020

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